Secrets to Success

Lets face it, some things just get better with age. Things like fine wine, Cuban cigars, and yes, even women!
Meeting a woman whos older than you can actually be quite a good way to meet a fantastic partner. Usually, older women are much more experienced, not only in relationships, but also in the bedroom.
So meeting older women can actually teach you a ting or two – not only about relationships, but also about what youre really looking for in a partner.
So the real question is:
Are you interested in dating a woman whos older than you are?
Do you find older women more attractive than their younger counterparts?
Well, my friend, you are not alone!
Older women are much more mature and experienced in the ways of love. They have usually had a lot of practice dealing with men, and know their way around the bedroom.
They can also be MUCH easier to deal with than younger women, who can tend to be a little high maintenance.
If you are a man in your mid-to-late 20s whos mostly been with women in their late teens and early 20s, dating a woman in her 40s can be a real treat for you!
They tend to be more mature and less selfish sexually, and in just about every other way than the women you are used to dating. And if you are not looking for anything serious, the chances are higher that they are not either, if they are just past child-bearing age.
In that way, they kind of like a lot of women in their mid-20s and younger, who dont feel compelled to start a family in the way that single women who have hit 28 or 29 do. By the time a single woman reaches that age range, shes more likely to feel that now iss the time to act if shes ever going to have children.
Thats because shes not getting any younger, and she feels less attractive than she was when she was in her early 20s. In her mind, its only going to get harder to find a great man she can settle down with.
(By the way, a lot of women at this stage make a mistake that a lot of men make their entire lives: they get desperate. Some women actually repel men because of their desire to get into a serious relationship sooner than the man is comfortable with. And a lot of women at this stage will settle for a man who they are not compatible with, but who will end up fulfilling their need to have a family.)
So how can you start meeting older women?
You are not so likely to find them at trendy nightclubs, but you can find them just about everywhere else you can find attractive women: while you are out shopping, at coffee houses, local bars, or in bookstores. You can also meet them through school, volunteer activities or through friends.
But bar none, the BEST place to meet older women is online dating sites.
Sites like Match and E-Harmony have a bevy of older women just looking for some guy to come along and sweep them off their feet.
Some of them have kids, most of them are divorced, but one thing they all have in common is that they are probably looking to have a good time!
Also, more and more over 30 women are heading towards social networking sites like MySpace as a way to meet new people. Just by doing a quick search for your target age range in your local area on MySpace will yield a number of potential older women you can meet.
But there are problems with dating older women. You may not be as mature as she is, which can be a problem for both of you. And the age difference can become rather awkward should you decide to get married: If there is a 15-year age difference between you, then she will be 50 when you are 35!
But thats not to say that you shouldnt meet and date an older woman. It can be a great experience for you, if you are aware of the potential issues that can arise in the relationship.

The online dating industry has grown significantly in the past several years. For busy guys, it can be an especially appealing way to meet women which is probably why so many men are using these online services. Though you can meet women from virtually anywhere, an increasing number of guys are using online dating to locate and meet local women.
For those men who are tired of the dating scene yet still want to meet interesting, attractive women, online dating sites are a good alternative. This is especially true for those men who find themselves stuck in the office too late and with little time. But, what about those men who have little time yet little money also?
Well, some of the basic features of online dating sites such as Match.com, for instance, can also be found elsewhere. The good news is that it doesn’t have to cost you anything. With free social networks hitting the online market, more and more people are meeting online with a FREE service.
AdultFriendFinder.com and Match.com, among others, are set up specifically for dating, yes. This is one small advantage over general social network sites. However, just like you perform a search on these sites, you can perform a search on free social network sites. Some of the more popular ones are MySpace.com and Friendster.com, though the number of social networks sites is growing.
MySpace.com, for example, allows you to simply set up a profile and begin contacting other MySpace members. As mentioned, though, you will need to do a little work to find the single women. But, it only requires you to use the search tools provided and opt for only those women looking for a relationship or dating. This is important for two reasons.
First, keep in mind that not everyone on these free sites are looking to date or find a relationship. They may only be on the site for networking or friendships. So, be cautious in who you contact by limiting it to only those members who specifically indicate on their profile that they are looking to meet someone for dating or a relationship.
Second, consider yourself for a minute. If you are that guy who is too busy, you surely do not want to waste your time reading a profile and initiating contact with a woman who is not interested in dating. Rather, focus your energy on those women whose profile explicitly states that they are on that site for dating or relationships. Just like in offline contexts, you still must “approach” the woman and doing so knowing ahead of time that she is “looking” makes the initiation a lot easier.
Once you find a profile you are interested in, read the entire profile to learn more about her. You should then make contact with a brief message introducing yourself. However, do not start with a line about how “hot she looks” or such. The probability of you receiving a reply will be much less, as women on social network sites tend to here that quite often and hate it. She may very well reply to your message, but it will probably not be the response you were seeking. Rather, start with a nice, general introduction to improve your chances of getting a positive response.
Finding the available women in your town doesn’t have to cost you a costly monthly fee. Rather, you can use this money saved toward your time out with a woman. Follow the advice above and you may find yourself in need of that extra money sooner than you anticipated!

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The Approach Defined

This is BOOT CAMP MATERIAL and most likely my biggest article yet So READ UP. This is definitely the meatiest, up to date dissection of my thoughts and feelings towards whatever this is that we’re doing. And you’re getting this info free of charge care of AsianNaturalGame.com and Troy Dizon. Opening

Fact: Can i teach guys 10,000 openers? NO

Matter of fact, I suck at teaching opening verbiage. That’s because I DON’T BELIEVE IN IT. I Don’t believe in having the “right words to say”

How do I know that a student has grasped natural game? When 80% of the time the kid can’t even remember how he opened after getting the number, the kiss, the date, or even the lay.

Heck, I can’t even remember most of mine.

If you understand the simple physiology of what goes on in approaching strangers, you would not give a $#!& about openers and focus more on conveying your personality and finding out hers so the situation can allow the seduction to naturally happen. Mindset What do I think about when i approach: NOTHING. ZERO. It’s pretty hard for guys to embrace the unknown and embrace chaos, but once you do, and you train yourself to do so, you almost reach a zen-like state where you truly are not attached to any specific outcome. You have a moment of clarity; you say exactly what you think in any particular moment. Enjoy being formless, flow with WHAT YOU THINK is a great line for you in the moment. My belief is I would rather have said my honest to goodness thought aloud than have it kept it in the dark and miss an opportunity. That single thought prevents me from missing opportunities.

STOP VISUALIZING – Approaching SHOULDN’T BE PERFECT. Stop thinking that your initial “line” will automatically cause women to drop their panties for you. Its just ego attachment.

How can you fear something that hasn’t happened yet? Or how can you foretell a sure shot success interaction without trying? Got a spirit ball or tarot cards or something?

Point is, eradicate as much thought blockers as possible. If people have a problem with you speaking your mind, its their problem. Its only one person out of a hundred thousand possible interactions. Get over trying to please everyone. Belief I don’t have amazing lines. I just trained myself to speak my mind and to eliminate any inner turmoil that stops me from saying that. Do I care what people think of me? NO. Do I have fear of outcomes? NO. Do I have tangible success to back up what I say? YES.

If i am formless in execution, then I am hardcore in belief. I truly believe that everything that spouts out of my mouth is interesting, well-thought out, fun, and value-giving. Whether I’m talking about deep life lessons like I always do at Charisma Arts, or mentioning that the coolest hotel doorbell I’ve ever seen that tripped me out was in Singapore City. Heck, the other day I told a very attractive, successful real estate chick the other day about my damn root canal, and how I had fun watching Bourne Identity while the dentist was scraping away and injecting me with anesthesia. Take note i was calling her while half of my mouth was numb. What happened next? She was offering to meet me in a coffee place nearby because she thought my life was so compelling and interesting. Was it necessarily compelling by content? NO. It was compelling because It was compelling TO ME.

I am only scratching the surface here. There is a lot more to approaching, but there just isn’t enough room allowed here to write out the whole process.

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We men must never assume that our wants and needs are the same as that of women. We are programmed differently in our DNA. We should not be afraid of this though. Instead we should use it to our advantage. Imagine knowing how they think and feel, this alone will put you ahead of 99% of the men out there.
Most of us men have the belief that women are attracted to looks, money and fame. In fact, most women care most about how we can make them feel. It has nothing to do with looks, money or fame.
We do not need to be a Brad Pitt or George Clooney. We have been given what we have so use it! We should focus on our strengths and this confidence about ourselves alone will indirectly attract women into our lives.
In fact, we should be quite relieved. We have it easy. When a man is not physically attracted to a woman, there is not much she can do to change things. But it is always possible for a man who don’t have the looks, the height, the wealth, the fame to make a women feel the same way we do when we see a physically beautiful women. Ain’t that cool?
Most men make the mistake of trying to buy her affection with gifts and presents.
It is pleasant of course to take her out on romantic dinners where the both of you can enjoy each others company, but if you make the mistake of buying her gifts way too early in the relationship, she will see this as a form of buying your way into her heart.
And the funny thing is, if this is a women that constantly accepts your gifts and continually expects more, you may need to question how long you can keep this up and is she really with you for who you are or the presents she’s been getting.
Most women actually want men whom have the confidence in themselves to know he can please her with who he is and not how much he has got superficially.
Men must never portray they are desperate to land a date or land in her pants. Subtly make it clear that you are choosing. There is nothing more powerful in a female mind than letting her know that you are selective when it comes to finding the perfect partner. This alone also sets you apart from most guys out on the street that would settle for anyone they can get. Usually it is proximity or convenience which a leads a guy towards a women.
Women are usually the fishermen who throw out the bait and it is us guys hungry for a feed that get lured into anything.
Make a decision to set yourself apart today! When a woman knows you are actually the one fishing and very selective of the catch, she will give it her all to impress you in reverse as she perceives she has competition!
Wow, isn’t this a difference in thought!

If your like most men then you have talked yourself out of approaching allot of beautiful women. I’m not talking just any woman either. I’m talking the extremely gorgeous women that catch your eye.
There is no doubt about the fact that beautiful women can be intimidating. The assumption that she has many men chasing after her and that your not good enough for her is enough to make you not approach her. This means you will need to come up with a different way of thinking.
Start by finding out where you are holding yourself back. What are some beliefs that are stopping you from approaching these women? What are some of the excuses that you use to validate your actions of not approaching her?
Here are a list of some of the more common reasons men won’t approach beautiful women.
She has more men then she can handle: You don’t know this. Most beautiful women still get lonely because their options are not as good as many people think they are. You might be surprised just how lonely some of these women really are.
I don’t make enough money: She might not care how much money you even make. The truth is that you don’t want a woman who wants you for your money.
I’m not good looking enough: You really never know what someone else finds attractive. Women love a guy with personality and character. If you can develop those two things then you won’t need good looks.
She is already taken: Some women have to deal with the fact that most men are intimidated by her. This means she rarely ever gets to go on a date. Most guys get this wrong. The point of approaching her is to find out if she is available. There is no harm in doing so and she really wont mind anyways.
She is probably stuck up: The reason you approach a woman is to find this sort of thing out. If she ends up being stuck up then so be it. Move on to the next woman. She might be allot friendlier.
Once you get past some of these belief issues you should go out to approach some women. When your just learning this stuff make your approaches quick and snappy. The longer you talk to her the more likely you are to say something stupid to her. As you get more experience you can get a little more ambitious.
Now all you have to do is go out and apply some of this information. You can never beat real life experiences to learn from.